Monday, January 25, 2010

Through the thoughts of an average indian girl post marriage...

    
      ·         Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
·         Who is earning almost as much as you do;
·         One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; 
·         One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;
·         One, who has lived and loved her parents; brothers; sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
·         One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name;
·         One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen;
·         One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;
·         And is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
·         One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
·         Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
·         Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
·         One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
·         One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
·         One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

You may ask who she is. Well, as i said, she is just another girl from your neighborhood back in India, just another girl who needs some respect, love and care, and above all, understanding.

Not many guys understand this..It’s time we see through the gender barrier and respect them!..This is my salute to them..

7 comments:

  1. Declaration: This was saved as a draft on 26th sept in my posts...dont really rem' its authenticity or the fact if i wrote it or is it inspired..but the aim is to get the point across..i hope it does.. ;) njoi bloggin..! ;)

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  2. Hey even if its from some other source , just the face that u have posted it would mean something to girls.. Dint know u had this girly side... Its nice though.

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  3. Yep, it all comes with experience....

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  4. its reallly nice to read something thats so true.... dono who or wat inspired u.... watever b the reason... its niceee... :)

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  5. just an avg girl inspired it....i mean, they go through a lot, but one would hardly say a word, and when they do, thers no one to hear out. Being a guy, its is necessary to shed some light to what actually a girl really goes through, my inspiration, countless talks with sister, girl friends and female friends....glad to know that it is true!

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  6. Simple and to the point......really good 1!!!!

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